Monday, January 4, 2016

Warning: This is a boring babble about my reignited love for books

I used to read a lot as a pre-teen and teenager, and then somewhere along my college years I stopped reading for pleasure. I specifically remember my mom buying me the Hunger Games series in college (before all the movie hullabaloo), and as I was reading it I thought to myself, if I was going to read, it should be my textbooks. I closed my book and started studying. I think in my college years, I’ve only read a handful of books for actual enjoyment.

A couple of weeks ago, I was having a really hard time sleeping. It was so hard to actually function in the outside world when you’re sleeping at four in the morning and waking up extremely tired. I was on my laptop one night, online window-shopping and etc. for a couple of hours when I realized that I was wasting a lot of my time doing absolutely nothing and realized that maybe all the technology use before bed was hindering my sleep. I picked up a book from my bookshelf and it was a book I’d previously read a long time ago, and it was The Catcher in the Rye. Ironically this was one of those books I read in college, but not for college. I immediately transported into the world of this little book, and after reading it, I started craving more books. I also want to mention that I had an amazing nights sleep that night.

I’ve since then began a book-reading binge and am reading constantly. I’ve so far after Catcher in the Rye, completed The Valley of Amazement by Amy Tan and K.A. Tucker’s Chasing River. The only thing I hate about reading is spending money on them. I could go to a library to read books, but when I was like 8 years old I didn’t return a ton of library books and have been afraid ever since then to go back and get a new library card (guilty confession).

I thought that I could start putting up quick book reviews here, and since there is nobody reading this but myself, they are for myself. I read mostly fiction, and sometimes I’ll read the occasional Christian book or inspirational self-help book. Science fiction and fantasy books are what I love reading the most, because I’m a Harry Potter kid. Actually, Harry Potter is what got me into reading the first place. I remember being so excited for each book, and the countless number of times I would re-read each book in elementary school and high school.

I do want to step out of my comfort zone a bit. My aunt gave me Ken Follett’s Pillars of the Earth a while back. It was my first historical fiction kind of book and I really did enjoy it. For this year, I want to start reading more in general, but more books I wouldn’t normally pick up. A friend of mine recommended a couple of Humour/Comedy books so I definitely want to pick that up because I’ve never even dipped into that world. I should just make a list…

Here’s my list so far:
  • World Without End by Ken Follet – It isn’t a series after Pillars of the earth but it follows the same years after, so I thought I would enjoy it as much as I did Pillars. I actually just bought it today
  • Bossy Pants by Tina Fey – A recommendation by a good friend
  • Modern Romance by Aziz Ansari – Another recommendation by said friend
  • Burying Water by K.A. Tucker – I didn’t know she started a series and I read Chasing River without reading the first two books. I don’t think it would really matter though because the story line doesn’t continue like a series would. 
  • I want to finish the Mortal Instruments Series because I read the first two a couple of years ago, but there are like 4 more books? So I guess the one I’m to read next is book 3 – City of Glass by Cassandra Clare. It’s ever since I finished book 2 years ago, been bothering me that I haven’t finished the series. The first two books were good but eh, I feel committed to finish them.

I think I’ve already got a handful for now. If you're having a hard time sleeping, try reading for an hour before bed instead of using your tech stuff. 

Friday, January 1, 2016

New Years Resolutions

I've never understood the hate that came when someone professed to make some New Years Resolutions. It’s something that should be encouraged if someone is willing to look internally and work at his or her own self-improvement.  I don’t know why we tend to get negative and sceptical when someone has goals. Let’s be kind to one another, encourage each other’s goals and dreams, and not be crabs in a bucket.

The New Year always causes me to look back at this past year, look ahead at who I want to be, and where I want to be in the future. I always like to set goals for myself during the year but of course especially at the start of the year.

I wanted to write down a few of my New Years resolutions, so they would be tangible in some way and I would hold myself accountable for my own success. This year I want to work towards:
  • Growing more in love with God. I know that without Him this life is meaningless, and I could never do anything without Him. I want to learn more about Him, I want to write more about Him, and I want to sing more about Him.
  • Finding financial freedom. I need to work towards being debt free and not being a financial burden on my grandparents and fiancĂ©.
  • Marrying the love of my life. Yes it’s important to plan a wedding and all but it’s more important to prepare myself for marriage and to be the wife God has called me to be to him.
  • Be patient, kind and love people. I really don’t want to be the unforgiving, bitter, or mean person I used to be.
If you haven’t already, write down your goals for this year. (This reminder is for you and for myself.) It really doesn’t matter if people say, “Really? You want to do that? You can’t do that.” Don’t pay attention to their negativity. Don’t do it for them for or for anyone else but yourself. ­­­

And if it means anything to you, I believe in you. I believe everyone and anyone can accomplish greatness. Setting New Years Resolutions/Goals and wanting to pursue a better you is a beautiful way to start.

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